Friends

Have you ever spared a thought to what your life would be like if you have no friends at all? There would be no one to talk to, share your joys and sorrows with, laugh with, and to be there with you when you need moral supports and encouragement. Friends are necessary in life because they help to enrich our lives. Life will be utterly, boring, meaningless and empty without friends. The saying 'No man is an island' is apt for we do need company in life. Life without friends likened to a life of solitary confinement, just like a prisoner on death row.

The most important quality to have in a friend is someone who shares some common interests. Friends mix with the same peer group. They are like bosom buddies who have common topics to talk about eg movies, idols, fashion, games. They even join the same cocuriculum activities in school, sit together in class, go out for a movie together. It is very important that friends are always on the same wavelength so that they can enjoy one another's company.

A friend should be loyal and trustworthy. He must be someone whom I can confide in, knowing that my secrets are safe with him and he would not betray my trust. This is someone who is a pillar of strength, always there for me through thick and thin and would never desert me when I am faced with adversities.

Another quality I seek for is a person who is sincere and genuinely concerned about me. Nowafays, it is very difficult to have a sincere friend. More acquantainces and fairweather friends are aplenty. If I have a friend who is truly sincere, I would regret and treasure him as a gem for such a friend is difficult to come by.

A friend who is helpful and generous certainly makes life worth living. Such a friend is willing to give of his time, service, is selfless and puts others' needs before his. His generosity is overwhelming as he is always willing to lend a helping hand. It is indeed a rare quality to have when one gives generously. It is true that it is more blessed to give tan to receive.

Through the passge of time, a true friendship should nurture and last, instead of fading away. Hence if I have found someone with all the qualities mentioned, I shall certainly cherish him for I am well aware that true friends are few and rare!!

S c o r p i o - The Addict

haha i saw this notes from a diary in a bookstore~
it is about my zodiac signs -----------> Scorpio
n i think that it's very accurate to describe me lol
here is the notes~~~

"Extremely adorable. Love to joke. Very good in sense of humour.
Will try almost anything once. Loves to be pampered. Energetic.
Predictable. Great kisser ( i dunno yet, never try it before...lol)
Always get what they want. Attractive. Loves being in long relationships.
Talkative(yes i am). Loves to party but at times to the extreme.
Loves the smell and feel of money and is good at making it but just as good at spending it!
Very protective over loved ones. hard worker. Can be a good friend but if disrecpected by a friend, the friendship will end."

Officially 21~~

lalalala~~~ im officially 21 yesterday
n im going to travel the route of adulthood~~ haha
thx for all the bday wishes,pressies n angpausss haha
really appreciate it from the bottom of my heart~~
1stly i wanna blow a big kiss to my parents for raising me up~
n 2ndly a big thank you to all my frens for the bday celebration n all the pressies that i received~~
especially from princess n ph haha u grils really give me a big surprised~~ haha thx for the lovely cake~~
girls let's pass ACCA together n meet our prince charming LOL haha~~
haha this year was my most memorable bday ever~ received a lots of bday wishes from frens via smses,facebook n frenster as well~
im so touch by receiving all the wishes~
n i received a bday from my mum's fren with a wonderful poem in it~ err should b a poem i guess haha

"21 candles finally are here,
we must admit, we wanted all year.
so many obstacles, around tired to steer,
passion for greatness; truly sincere!

A bit more mature, mind fairly clear,
path in the making; future career,
wisdom chooses an open ear,
your charming smile, people adhere.

youthfully bold, conquer your tear,
never hesitate to shed a new tear,
your beautiful actions may revere,
a trusting shoulder, always hold near." by Martin Dejnicki